What am I doing wrong?weaning my child and feeling down,down,down?

NO! I only nursed my first for 1 month and my second for 6 months. Go with your gut instinct..YOU are the one nursing, not anybody else. I nursed my second for 6 months b/c i had nurses/lactation specialists telling me that the was best, but i knew he wasn't getting enough milk!! I should've stopped a long time ago. They only saw him latching on for 5 minutes at at time. They weren't home with me to see realistically how much he was getting the whole day. You might not have that exact problem, but you are stressed and tired and that is going to affect your body. If you feel guilty, then just supplement..it's hard to wean them off the at any age, but it has to be done sooner or later. Might as well be now.